This trip was a turning point in my life… it was revealing in many aspects. It helped me realize there is too much beauty to life to be wasted on regrets or feeling sorry for paths in life that I did not take willingly and which blinds me from taking the paths that I am willing to take.
The resemblance between my friend and me was abnormal. We read the same books, we are both a middle child, both Leos, we are both the rouge one of our families and we even have the same preferences when it comes to shoes. And let me elaborate on this shoes coincidence because it was quite funny. When we first met, we were wearing the same brand and only figured out the next day, which so happened to be another day in which we were wearing a different brand than the day before but still the same brand as each other!!!
The resemblances in our choices and preferences made me question, and affirm, some of my basic concepts in life, and right now, I am more convinced than ever that there is no such thing in life as chance. However, I started to believe in the concept of “meant to be” although I am still searching for the answer of why things are meant to be the way they are?
Life just keeps giving us clues but always forgets to give us the keys to interpret them… I guess it is up to us to find those keys.
A predominant subject that we have been discussing a lot was “relationships”, some how I still know a thing or two about these, and apparently, I haven’t lost my faith completely on the same. In fact, I haven’t lost my faith at all, somewhere deep inside my clouded heart I still believe that there is more to life than one big-time screwed-up relationship.
I right now believe that we should not miss on life because we are scared or not sure. We should build our criteria upon our needs and not our desires because the former are durable but the latter are ever changing. The need is the driving emotion of the human heart but desire is the byproduct of such need. That’s, basically, what makes us differ from animals, and ironically that what makes some animals differ from most – so called – humans.
The farewell moments were emotional, some how we bonded within these twelve days as we could have done in the twelve years, had we been interacting in real life. She told her friends one day that “some how we had this soul-mate thing going on between us since the start” her words crossed my mind while I hugged her and kissed her hands goodbye. I felt proud of her and myself for proving to the world that humanity can still prevail despite of all the madness that is going on.
We’ve already made plans for our next meet and I am very much looking forward to that.
Who knows where life will take us from there?
The resemblance between my friend and me was abnormal. We read the same books, we are both a middle child, both Leos, we are both the rouge one of our families and we even have the same preferences when it comes to shoes. And let me elaborate on this shoes coincidence because it was quite funny. When we first met, we were wearing the same brand and only figured out the next day, which so happened to be another day in which we were wearing a different brand than the day before but still the same brand as each other!!!
The resemblances in our choices and preferences made me question, and affirm, some of my basic concepts in life, and right now, I am more convinced than ever that there is no such thing in life as chance. However, I started to believe in the concept of “meant to be” although I am still searching for the answer of why things are meant to be the way they are?
Life just keeps giving us clues but always forgets to give us the keys to interpret them… I guess it is up to us to find those keys.
A predominant subject that we have been discussing a lot was “relationships”, some how I still know a thing or two about these, and apparently, I haven’t lost my faith completely on the same. In fact, I haven’t lost my faith at all, somewhere deep inside my clouded heart I still believe that there is more to life than one big-time screwed-up relationship.
I right now believe that we should not miss on life because we are scared or not sure. We should build our criteria upon our needs and not our desires because the former are durable but the latter are ever changing. The need is the driving emotion of the human heart but desire is the byproduct of such need. That’s, basically, what makes us differ from animals, and ironically that what makes some animals differ from most – so called – humans.
The farewell moments were emotional, some how we bonded within these twelve days as we could have done in the twelve years, had we been interacting in real life. She told her friends one day that “some how we had this soul-mate thing going on between us since the start” her words crossed my mind while I hugged her and kissed her hands goodbye. I felt proud of her and myself for proving to the world that humanity can still prevail despite of all the madness that is going on.
We’ve already made plans for our next meet and I am very much looking forward to that.
Who knows where life will take us from there?